SHEHOLDS 她拿著
A publication about marriage, motherhood, family, travel, food and the work of holding a house.
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Dinner for 4
On sharp knives, sharp tongues, heat and the value of carrying a towel.
Chinese New Year
On pan-fried turnip cake, sleeping with a Gweilo, fertility, and the impossible work of being Lai Yin.
On Miscarriage
By the time I had written the thank-you cards to our wedding guests, I was pregnant. Then my womb was empty again.
My baby turned 16 today.
Some nights you don’t have to hold it all. Some nights you’re simply held.
The woman who commanded the room without a word.
A music teacher held a hall of children without shouting or force. True feminine power signals and places. It doesn’t ask.
Orbit 軌道
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On beautiful breasts, cocktails and riding a lift with Elvis.
Roland Garros
Cascais
Göttingen
Tours
Gravity 重力
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Cosplay
Dinner for 4
On childbirth