Placement / Subscribers A practical guide to sex and dating with ease (Part three). Part three of a three-part series on establishing and maintaining power and good sex. By Lai Yin / 29 Jun 2025
Placement / Subscribers Why placement beats the bottle He doesn’t drink because he’s weak. He drinks because he has nowhere to land. By Lai Yin / 25 Jun 2025
Placement / Subscribers The Hormonal Loop In humans and other mammals, orgasm exists as a reward for mating. Hormones deliver reward. With direction and placement, reward is constant. By Lai Yin / 25 Jun 2025
Signal / Subscribers A practical guide to sex and dating with ease (Part two). Part two of a three-part series on establishing and maintaining power and good sex. By Lai Yin / 22 Jun 2025
Gravity Daily rituals for aging with power These five daily rituals restore dignity, sensuality, and presence to the process of aging. Power doesn’t fade. By Lai Yin / 18 Jun 2025
Placement / Subscribers A practical guide to sex and dating with ease (Part one). Part one of a three-part series on establishing and maintaining power and good sex. By Lai Yin / 15 Jun 2025
Placement / Subscribers Why I have him land on me. This is structure. I have him land on me because I hold the house. Placement is somatic regulation. Regulation is embodied gravity. By Lai Yin / 8 Jun 2025
Signal / Subscribers The use of voice in placement and receiving In my domain, my voice is instrumental. By Lai Yin / 1 Jun 2025
Maintenance / Subscribers Why can’t he stay tuned? Men are not static. They are built to move, rise, and return. Tuning is not control. It’s meeting him at design specifications. By Lai Yin / 26 May 2025
Orbit The girls are in their room I didn’t declare myself mother to another daughter. I became her mother the moment I stopped tracking her as “other.” By Lai Yin / 18 May 2025
Gravity Seoul I travelled alone this trip. I was marrying him this year and needed this trip for myself. I ate Kimchi jjigae on Garosu-gil and restored what I never should’ve lost. By Lai Yin / 15 May 2025
Placement / Subscribers Lisbon On shaded avenues and rooftop vistas. On cocktails, downbeat tracks and placing him. By Lai Yin / 5 May 2025
