SHEHOLDS 她拿著 (Page 3)

Four Books. One Woman.

On marriage, motherhood, sex, family, food, airports and the impossible work of holding a house.

Chinese New Year

On pan-fried turnip cake, sleeping with a Gweilo, fertility, and the impossible work of being Lai Yin.

By Lai Yin 麗賢

/ 17 Feb 2026

Chinese New Year

SHE HOLDS

On holding my house 门第

By Lai Yin 麗賢

/ 9 Feb 2026

SHE HOLDS

Porto

On departures, arrivals that never happened, and second chances.

By Lai Yin 麗賢

/ 6 Feb 2026

Porto

Lijiang

On altitude, breathlessness, and boundaries held.

By Lai Yin 麗賢

/ 25 Jan 2026

Lijiang

Bali

On sex, pregnancy, children and wanting.

By Lai Yin 麗賢

/ 16 Jan 2026

Bali

Berlin

On hospitality, family, fundraising, and sex before breakfast.

By Lai Yin 麗賢

/ 11 Jan 2026

Berlin

Sydney

On Felix, sex, motherhood, and twenty years of asking who leads.

By Lai Yin 麗賢

/ 4 Jan 2026

Sydney

Melbourne

On abuse, abortions, hospitals, and the men who stayed with me.

By Archive

/ 21 Dec 2025

Melbourne

Sleeping with women

On a straight woman’s attraction to women.

By Lai Yin 麗賢

/ 14 Dec 2025

Sleeping with women

On roundabouts

On school mornings, school runs and needing to breathe again.

By Lai Yin 麗賢

/ 14 Dec 2025

On roundabouts

SHEHOLDS 她拿著

A publication about how women shape and hold the spaces around them.