Lai Yin

She writes about marriage, motherhood, somatic Placement, and power. She lives in Europe with her husband and their three daughters.

Sevilla

On crossing Europe alone by train and being hot and single for a while.

By Lai Yin

/ 26 Oct 2025

Some women are sent

Some women aren’t just born. They’re summoned across bloodlines and time to complete what another woman began.

By Lai Yin

/ 24 Oct 2025

Paris

On boundaries, break-up sex and leaving by train.

By Lai Yin

/ 23 Oct 2025

On menstruation and the birds and the bees

Before they could walk, they already knew what blood meant. Because we never hid it. We never locked the door.

By Lai Yin

/ 21 Oct 2025

On menstruation and the birds and the bees

A woman can love her man and his penis without being dominated by him and his sex drive.

On a straight woman’s joy of keeping a penis of her own.

By Lai Yin

/ 19 Oct 2025

A woman can love her man and his penis without being dominated by him and his sex drive.

Placement: A somatic method for restoring calm, certainty, and ease.

This method quickly lowers stress and leaves you feeling powerful.

By Lai Yin

/ 13 Oct 2025

Placement: A somatic method for restoring calm, certainty, and ease.

People are performing for a performer who is dead.

Grief isn’t performance. It’s breath that doesn’t fill. A reflection on Diane Keaton, loss, and saying it while they’re still alive.

By Lai Yin

/ 12 Oct 2025

My baby turned 16 today.

Some nights you don’t have to hold it all. Some nights you’re simply held.

By Lai Yin

/ 4 Oct 2025

On presence

He does not always listen. But he always sees.

By Lai Yin

/ 1 Oct 2025

The biology of placement

Plain language on oxytocin prolactin and dopamine in placement. How timing and repetition at release create calm in your body and presence in him.

By Lai Yin

/ 21 Sep 2025

The bed is not the field

Gravity doesn’t live in the bed. It moves with the woman who holds the space.

By Lai Yin

/ 14 Sep 2025

Venture capital does not exist

The myth, the drain, and the real cost of keeping a company alive.

By Lai Yin

/ 10 Sep 2025

Structure for embodied power

How a woman creates order and becomes the gravitational centre of her house.

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