The code beneath the practice
Unacknowledged pressure turns to noise. Claimed pressure returns to order.
This isn’t kink. It’s code.
And when a woman places her man,
not to arouse,
not to flatter,
but just to see him and claim him, it resets his nervous system.
His body knows it’s seen.
His arousal knows it has a home.
The need stops leaking out sideways as commentary, interruption, mood, or withdrawal.
This isn’t a reward system.
It’s household regulation.
Every two, three days isn’t a rule, it’s a rhythm.
A pattern that prevents friction from compounding.
Witness or receive in five minutes, sometimes less.
Because it’s not about ejaculation.
It’s about recognition.
So yes: five minutes every two or three days isn’t indulgence.
It’s maintenance of peace.
And most women never get taught that.
This is pre-verbal protocol.
Before we had words for desire or duty, there was rhythm.
Before we had stories about sex, there was placement.
A look.
A reach.
A pulse of invitation.
A quiet, biological yes.
Not kink.
Not culture.
Code.
