Maintenance
A young woman’s guide to ease and grace part one.
Part one of a three-part series on placement. This post gives the lived context and the standard that makes everything work.
Tuning
Actions or adjustments that sync your man’s nervous system to your frequency. Eye contact. Breath. Voice tone. Posture. You calibrate him back to you. You bring him into harmony. He steadies. He sharpens. He softens where needed. You lead the frequency. He follows.
Completion
Rooting: Why I let my man come on my body
This isn’t submission. It’s structure. I let him land on me because I hold the house, and placement is power.
Tuning
Why can’t he stay tuned?
Men are not static. They are built to move, rise, and return. Tuning is not control. It’s meeting him at design specifications.
Placement
When I choose anal, it’s not play. It’s placement.
Anal is not friction. It is not theatre. It is signal.
Placement
Why I decide when
Tuning is not about his need. Tuning is not about relief. Tuning is about this house. This orbit. This return. That’s why I decide when.
Stewardship
How I tune my man in a real house. With real kids. In real time.
Five minutes. Any room. Any hour. I tune my man before friction starts. I clear him before chaos builds. I place him before drift sets in.
Tuning
Why I tune my man
I share my house with a man. My space. My rhythm. My bed. And because I want no drama, I tune him.